Happy Father's Day!





I take a lot of pride in trying to find the perfect card that says exactly what I am feeling, but this year it was pretty difficult to really capture my reflection of you as a father this year. Since Father's Day last year, a lot has happened and has been transformative.

Here in India, I was able to watch you come into your own as a father. I mean you have always been an incredible father but being in India you really mastered fatherhood. You got the kids ready for school, you picked them up, you helped them with their homework, you made their favorite foods, and you did  their laundry every day (really ever day!). Aside from those mundane tasks of being a parent, you went deeper. You found JJ a soccer team and Ashram a karate class, you listened to them when they were upset, you meditated with them, and you showed them what it means to be kind and compassionate. With you as their father, leading them through life, they will find their way to becoming kind and compassionate people just like you!

You have my deepest admiration and respect. I wish nothing more for you than all the happiness in the world today and every day!

Cheers to you John for being an incredible life partner and father. Here are some of the highlights of our adventures this year.



















































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